Thanks....y'all made me feel alot better....at least i know i'm not the only one now.....guess, i was married for wayyyyy tooooo long and got too used to gettin' some (such as it was) whenever i wanted.....well, at least i've finally found sumpin useful about him.

And yesterday at work, there's two girls in the lab whose husbands are military....i asked them...and they go thru the same thing with their husbands being in iraq on a long tour....and one said she never knew she got like that either unil he had been gone a few months....

Never did get my itch scratched yesterday (damnit), but between the ladies of pixies and the girls of the lab making me feel better...plus i got such a sexy phone call at work from an old friend, that the snarling did eventually end. And one of the docs at the office is my bestest buddy and he seems to always know when i'm just not a happy camper. I talked to him and he kept me laughing all day by making obscene gestures.