I come here for a good time, but it is very real. I've had the discussion a few times where I've mentioned that Pixies is more genuine and real than a lot of aspects of the "real world" because of the safety of privacy. My best friend knows about a lot of things I've experienced in my past, and knows quite a bit about me personally. Most people at Pixies know more than he does. Although it's true that he hasn't seen my penis...I'm not even discussing that portion of what I've revealed. I feel very liberated to disclose what I do, to whom I do, and it's because of the comfort level I have in the security that's maintained here by the people in charge. They're not passing judgement on the quality of posts (thankfully...or I'd be back down to 1,000!), nor are they randomly smiting individuals that rub them the wrong way. They're just following the rules.

I too am saddened to hear that someone is unhappy. For any reason. And being a "healer", I want to fix everything. Some things I can't. I'm just a dumbass, but I have a big heart and good ears. (Or is it a good heart and big ears? I forget) Oh yeah, I try to use humor to help things too. Sorry if it just adds to the aggravation.

Anyway, That's what I think, for what it's worth.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.