I think that people's perspectives change over time as well as their capacities for certain things. Personally, there's no way that I could have romantically loved more than one person when I was younger. But then, I could have eaten a whole extra larger, double topping, everything on it pizza all by myself. Now days, I eat until I'm satisfied, which is a lot LESS than it used to be, and I love until I'm satisfied, which is a lot MORE than it used to be. Not that everyone's capacities change, or that they even should. But for some of us, they do, and we need to learn to love and accept that in ourselves. Bottom line, as long as you're happy, then it's all good, and nobody should be judgemental because we're all different. And anyway...you know what they used to say in the good ol' days...The plural for spouse, is spice!

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I may be love's bitch, but at least I'm man enough to admit it.