I am going to have to respectfully disagree with you, joys. While you make a valid point about looking to yourself in the now, who you are at this current moment is shaped by your past, be it positive or negative. Your childhood and your parents have had a great influence on who you are today, and if you are not accepting of what happened to you in the past, then there is no way you can come to terms with who you are now.

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all