John Grey, the infamous pen behind "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" once stated in a Playboy interview (which is the only reason I bought the magazine ) that masturbation harmed your relationship with your S/O because it excluded them from a very intimate act. You can imagine what he would've said about loving two people simultaneously. Then again, he also said that wives should give their husbands handjobs anytime they're requested because they feel so good and require so little effort. So he's got good points as well as bad.

Maybe I'm trying to stretch a point that doesn't exist. I think it's possible to love more than one person at the same time. Two people that are strikingly similar in all facets are bound to generate the same feelings in someone that cares deeply for one of them. I envision this scenario much more apt to occur than one person loving two others that are polar opposite to each other. But hey...what do I know? I'm just a dumbass. lmao

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.