It's one of the hardest things one would ever have to aknowledge about themselves! Speaking from a purely personal experience...being "in love" with two different (totally different) men IS indeed possible and I am living proof that it can happen! I'd venture further to say...it's usually an accidental incident. One thing leads to another and suddenly you have this heart...so full of love...yet split in half. You might love one person for several certain somethings and the other for other certain somethings...but it's true love for both, regardless of the differences. And, I'm NOT saying that what is lacking in one relationship is sought in the other. I'm not even saying that anything is lacking in one or the other relationship. I'm saying that while you are loving one person with all of your heart...the other person steals part of your heart...and your heart splits...but never falters. Kinda like the egg that splits into identical twins. Two perfect, but different, entities...that started as one!

Just because it might not seem possible to you, doesn't mean it isn't possible.

I can't say that this is an ideal way to carry on a lifelong relationship[s]. Actually, I can't see it ever being ideal. Sooner or later it will take it's toll in some aspect of your life and you'll have to choose. That's not to say that the love has failed on either side. Just that, life has a way of moving along and taking you with it, and when you look up, your direction has changed and one or the other person hasn't made the same moves. That's the hardest part of it all!

OK...so I voted Kendall. Can you guess my vote? LOL!

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