Hi punkprincess. I'm not about to tell you what to do but here is a sugestion, when my wife and I first started dating, she had basically the same problem. Although we were not virgins, she had pain when we tryed to have sex. She went to her doctor and after he checked her for physical problems he sugested that , believe it or not, she should masterbate, with increasingly larger objects until she could have sex comfortably. My advice is get checked first, the play