10-08-2004, 04:55 AM
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Originally Posted by osuche
WI, what you said is so true! I recently learned that a restaurant Mr. Osuche and I had frequented for years -- about once per month for 8 years -- which I secretly thought was mediocre but thought he loved....LMAO....we BOTH dislike it! He thought I LOVED it. So that just goes to show you .... well, that we need to communicate better. 
We often wonder if we're weird. (other than the obvious) We discuss, but we never fight. I don't think either one of has has yelled at the other for about 5 years. Not that we don't have our problems ~~ but they're the big persistent ones like when to have kids. We've been "discussing" that for about 8 years now.  |
Have you ever read the children's books George and Martha? That is how I perceive a good marriage. Like you Osuche we don't scream and yell. We just respect each other too much. Mr. Lil is not an expressive/passionate man (I'm not talking about sex) but I know that about him. I am the opposite and he admires that in me. I think we tend to compliment the other's weaknesses. Our life is calm, no drama. I don't think I could be happy with someone who didn't think about how his actions would affect me/our family. It's the only thing keeping me from hopping a plane and ruining someone's life. |