...Just to provide a counterpoint, I think loud is great and my current girlfriend can scream with the best of them, but I find it eaqually intense when she finishes quietly...most notably because the only way she does finish quietly is when she clamps her teeth down on my shoulder or arm when she's cumming...her whole body will just stiffen and clench all around me, and that will be enough just to throw me right over the edge, especially that nice, intense combination of pleasure and pain...loud is good, but varity is nice as well...and sometimes more is said in a tense, gripping silence...

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"Bass and treble heal every hurt,
There's a rebel in a nylon shirt
But the words are a mystery, I'v heard
'Til you turn it down to 33 and 1/3
'Cos it helps with the elocution
Corporations turn revolutions
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