I'm getting the impression that you might be thinking she may not have been a virgin because there were no fireworks (pain, blood, tightness to the point of force).

If I recall my first time correctly (kinda hard to remember an eon ago...lol), I had very little pain and no blood. Loulabelle is right, that she may have broken her hymen another way...and a tampon is usually the culprit. If she remained a virgin but used sex toys and inserted them...that could be another way to lose it. Some woman just don't have a sturdy hymen and even if it's broken on the first sexual encounter, there is no pain or blood to speak of.

Sounds to me like you were a gentle and caring lover, and she was relaxed enough to accept you without tightening up and making it uncomfortable for the both of you. You should be proud and grateful for that. Some "first times" are awful for the girl and it's something we never forget. That she wanted you again soon after...and then again still, speaks volumes of her first time and of you! You did good hun...don't feel like anything went wrong!

BTW...penis size wouldn't matter if her hymen was intact and tight. There would be pain and/or blood no matter how big or small. That she had none of that doesn't indicate that you might need a penis enlargment. LOL! Just means things went well and she'll never forget you...her first!

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