Men grow up with an idea of our relative size in the same way that women do with regards to their breasts – well we can see them and other peoples, and there are probably as many old wives tales for both. I think that there is enormous ignorance with regard to vaginas amongst most men (myself included) and many women.

This combined with a pre-sexual liberation hangover that men are “in charge of sex” makes the size issue a one way street. I love sexually liberated people. You see the honest answers here – but you will also see women who will state a preference (for whatever reason even if its just in their heads) for larger cocks. Clearly so far the Pixie Ladies who may have this preference, have kept it to themselves on this thread. And why shouldn’t people be honest about what they prefer, there are so many other physical traits that we talk about. It doesn’t mean that they are a life and death issue or that we aren’t perfectly happy to compromise or change our preferences for the right person.

For me its just one of those things and for the vast majority of people it isn’t a big deal. But whereas I think there is too big for some and too small for others, I also do not adhere to the one size fits all vagina, from my own experiences. I have thought about this alot, I don’t want to upset anyone again by diving in two feet first.

I don’t know the medical term, but I would say there is a significant variance in the size of the opening. Don’t ask me about the sock analogy inside, I feel all sorts of strange and wonderful things going on inside there, especially during orgasm. But with the hindsight of being compatible with my partner, the size of the first opening does make a difference. I don’t know whether this is the muscle that is exercised by Kegels, but I think it is what men refer to when they say someone is loose and women who are wider may be expressing a preference for more width. If I can be crude – think of it like a hand job – if you go to the extremes and squeeze too tightly or too weakly – how good is it? But this is only one aspect of intercourse and a smaller aspect of sex and love – so you have to take it in context. Personally I do enjoy the feelings of penetration, so for me – yes – size does matter, that is a compatibility of size whether small, medium or large. This has just been my experience over the years now that this thread has made me revisit my experience – please don’t take this as some edict that must be true for everyone.

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