i've gotta echo the sentements of a few here. why does she NEED to be under 30? i'm curious what you believe the advantage of that is? not only are you foolishly limiting your chances to find the lasting love you claim to want, you are dissing an entire generation of sexy, smart, caring women! it always blows me away when people list the attributes most important in a lover/mate/so/whatever and NEVER mention the most important one...that they love you as much as you love them! try to lose this obsession you seem to have with a womans' age because, honey, someday she'll be over 30 and then what do you do? find a new one? we females are waaayyyy more than just a birthyear with a set of boobs.