I think thats one of the problems with my girl Ione,

She admits herself, that she gets too hung up on little things. Thinking too rationally. I think its just hard for her to 'let go' sometimes. Like, if I'm going down on her, she is more concentrated on looking at me (and then laughig at me.) instead on focusing on her own pleasure.
And no, she doesn't at all get excited if I suck/play with her nipples....They do get hard, but she doesn't feel much. Fucking hell, I could have my nipples sucked for days! Its the best!

Old Fart,
Thanks for the advice, but I don't think that I'm imposig my preconceptions here, and we do enjoy ourselves plenty. Things could be better though...for her. I'm just trying to make her happy, and I think I do for the most part, but theres always room for improvement.