The joys of sexuality, so I was lead to believe, were about having fun together.

It's not a contest to see who can have the biggest orgasms.

If you are in an honest and sharing relationship, don't try too hard to fix it,

because fixing something which isn't broken is the best way to break it.

If you put the energy you're spending in imposing your preconceptions

into just enjoying yourself with this lovely sharing lady, you'll be amazed.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating