Cybersex isn't an act...it's a shared fantasy. I've never done precisely the same thing with different people, so there's no formula. But it's far far from the only erotic conversation that can be had on the phone. Tell him what you fantasize about, ask him what HE'D like to do, describe what you are doing as you masterbate, just talk about anything that turns you on...and let him know you are. It's not so much a series of steps, as letting down the barriers and talking about sexy things.

Just let yourself go, and you'll find it comes naturally .

G