yeah, I've been slowly introducing her to some of these sites (like pixies place and literotica) and she really likes them. It was hard at first cause she really hates the typical porn stuff (and I do too...lame) but the sex stories really can get her hot.
We also like to talk dirty to each other, which help too.

But I think the problem might be more of a physical thing, like maybe her clitoris just isnt that sensitive. Sometimes she has orgasms when she really concentrates but I'm not sure if its through clitoral stimulation or if its just a mental orgasm (if thers such a think..I think there is though).

Keep the ideas coming!