Depends how good you are.

I speak here not of you, but of my sister in law, who truly loves me, but hasn't a clue what is what. I guess I have bad luck with sis-in-law's; one has her brain in the right place, the other her heart - unfortunately for me, neither girl has both. Or should I say, 'fortunately.

One doesn't have a clue what her fellow sisters want. The other would dob me off with a woman just like herself, a demographic in which she has chosen to practice self-imposed apartheid. That would be even worse.

I loved it when I introduced my last girlfriend to her, and the two ladies looked at each other with a kind of cold, thinly disguised hostility, suprisingly in the same way a couple of guys who don't like each other might.

A common piece we guys hear is, "If you want a woman...ask a woman". Women love to matchmake, or so we are are (mis)informed.

They say you can only love another, or be loved BY another, when you love yourself. I submit the same is true of matchmaking. You can't know someone elses mores, unless you are convinced of your known.

Know thyself. If not, you'll screw up royally.


Jaybee.