The last guy I dated (the one I'm talking about in the advice thread) seemed a lot more traditional in bed . . . but he seemed willing to learn and there were initial sparks.

I guess I consider the sexual part of the relationship very important. I've always found the sex gets *better* the longer you date. Then again, one of my friends is married and he says there was never any passion in his marriage. He said he'll explain further only over cocktails so I'll have to wait to find out more when I get to Toronto again.