kathy1
1. I am not drop dead gorgeous! C'mon now, But thanks for the compliment.
2.An independant, kick-ass-and-take-names-later kinda attitude means you aren't weak and clingy. Yeah, I'd say that was probably it. But watch out what you're attracting. It might be guys who want YOU to take care of them and that's no good either. I've been in that kind of a marriage before and it's no fun being mama instead of a wife.
3.I think you're in the "use and abuse" stage right now. Meaning you need to unload all that baggage you're carrying around and not ready to let go of it.
The "he did this and he did that to me" stage. Go find a real good friend or a psych to talk to and get over it so you can get on with your life. It really does help. You don't need to carry a chip on your shoulder but you do need to hold your head high and take a good look at what direction you want to go now in life. You need to take some "me" time right now dear and heal your wounds. Then later you can make better choices in dating. BTW....... the guys aren't exactly knocking down my door since I'm single now. Yeah the ones who are clingy are. But that's not what I want. I'm glad Darogle got deployed after I met him. It gave me my "ME" time and a year of getting to REALLY knowing him and him getting to know me. We talk every day and I have found out and said things to him that we probably would have learned about each other being face to face.
4. Do you REALLY want a guy who doesn't want any strings attached? Who has no feelings? You better think about that one! There's nothing worse than be with some one and still being lonely.
BTW......I spent a lot of money on toys while he's been gone. But it's been worth every penny.
