It happens. Sure it happens. I'm currently in the third longest relationship of my life. What that means is...at age 46 I have only had 3 "real love" relationships. I think about the past two all the time. A song, a word or phrase, an action...anything can spawn it. At those times I think to myself...OMG! What if I stayed with him or him? And then I think...Look who I'd be missing out on (my hubby)! Geezzzzzzz, I'm glad I took the road I took!

Things DO happen for a reason...whether you believe in a supreme being or fate or you just trust that you know yourself best and have chosen the best course for you at the time! I choose to believe that we all make our own destiny...in every choice we make in every hour of every day! I just hope that I don't take that for granted and I try and make wise choices I can live with!

Would it bother you to realize/know that your "little kitten" thinks of her past relationship[s] too? I think it's inevitable!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~