I think age probably has a lot to do with it. Maybe hunt for younger beefcake. Most men I know in their late 30's-40's are no longer shying away from commitment and imtimacy. They seem to like the stability and confidence that are often found in a relationship vs. being on the hunt, risking rejection for the thrill associated with triumph. Both stages have their good points...I've often found it entirely unfair that some men's and women's sexual independence vs. emotional attachment phases seem to be flip-flopped.

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