I think that it definitely depends on the situation and the people involved.... I think that some people can take it too far and some are easily offended. BTW Ophelia yours was definitely harassment and by a pastor in church ..for me that would make it much worse. Where I used to work the owner (I was his assistant), a couple other people (mailnly guys and one or two females) and I would joke around and be just perverted and raunchy in general while we 'misbehaved' in front of each other not in fron of the general staff we were informed that the things we said or did could be taken as sexual harassment by some.... So I guess its all a matter of opinion and how people react to each other. The bottom line is if someone says or does something that makes another uncomfortable and are asked to stop and continue with the behavior anyways then it is harassment.

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