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Old 08-02-2004, 11:55 PM
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The issue I take is that you made assumptions as to the reasons people have made these choices and your assumptions were in my opinion unkind and I hope when you look back you realize that when you make assumptions about people just because they are or live differently than you do that you are compartmentalizing them in boxes. I know that you surely do not think I belong in the boxes you originally subscribed to those people who participate in open lifestyles. At least I hope you don't. Because I have always afforded you more respect than that and am sure you afford me the same.

I felt bad that the topic got off to such a bad start and that people have felt hurt but that is what judging and condemnation tend to wreak. Havoc.
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