If the act excites him more than he is concerned for your discomfort, you probably need to re-evaluate! Unless you get a thrill from the act that you didn't share with us (which I didn't really hear).

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours