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Originally Posted by Irish
I,personally,would wonder about the whole
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I was wondering about the relationship when she said "my boyfriend invited one of his ex-girlfriends so we could have a 3some". Warning bells started dinging, but I kept on reading and then got to the bit about the anal.
By now I've not only got the annoying warning bells, I've got sirens and flashing lights as well. My brain's like the Enterprise under attack.
Maybe it's just me, but if he's wanting a threesome with you and his EX, then that makes me wonder just what he's thinking. The only way he could risk more emotional strain would be to ask your mother to join in. I honestly can't imagine a substantially bigger risk than inviting an ex to a threesome with a current gf.
Makes me wonder, then, why she did what she did. Does she want him back, and resent you as having 'stolen' him from her? Was she trying to hurt him by hurting you?
Why isn't he at all concerned that you were hurt and violated? Doesn't he care?
She's breakin' up! I canna give ya ennamore Cap'n!
Sorry to be all doom and gloom fun_lovin_bitch, but this whole situation just seems really odd and extremely risky. I truly hope it works out for you though - nobody should ever have something forced upon them like you did.
Best of luck,
CasperTG