Brian_Watt---Perhaps the reason for her hesitancy is the same as
the way my wife feels.She might figure that ONLY you should view
her charms.If so;be happy and proud that she feels that way.
Irish
P.S.Many people don't want anyone except their S/O to see them.
They're feelings should be respected.Remember:Different strokes;
for different folks!

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)