I'm not into "bad boys and girls"
I am not at all attracted to mean, nasty, RUDE selfish people.
I know it surprises some in this forum to learn how picky I am about who I fuck. (I am using fuck as general term for sex here, including sexual encouters with other women, and brief "oral" relationships and one time quickies) especially when they think about how many sexual partners I have had, but I AM choosy!
But I do not have to consider someone as "relationship material" in order to have fun.
I am sure that I have had sex of some kind with people who were not nice, (there have been some situations that I am not going to go into here, where it was ok with me and my partner) but it was just sex!
During a date, if he (or she) bores me with opppresive, tiring, hostile stuff, then I don't care how attractive you are, or how many drinks I have had, rude mean boring people don't make for good sex.
Now!!!
(struggles to climb her soap box)

Why does Martha Stewart need to be hurt?
I know she is an icon for gay men and straight women, and most women I know just admire her sucess in a world not very friendly to business women, but really!
"Needs to be butt fucked"?
I mean, if the suggestion wasn't meant as hostile, but the idea that she needs to loosen up sexually, and not take money stuff so seriously, then I agree, but she has had her whole life ruined, and really needs to be left alone.

(looks down from her soapbox and sighs, such a long way down for a tiny person with a morning -after headache)

Wanda

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho