So your saying that good sex or bad sex heavily relies on communication?
I disagree, if your with a partner or a one-night stand, sometimes no one is communicating. But what happens if the person your with is total out of wack: in that he likes the make-believe stuff and you just want to be romantic. No matter what you talk about he wants, lets say taboo sex. Your feeling un-comfortable and he's ready regardless..

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What do you mean at MY AGE?