Ginger, thanks for the thoughts. Somehow I knew that's about where it stands. Jenna believe me I've thought about the presonal repurcussions as well but if I got in trouble over this I think M & E would not only understand but support my decision... they like D too. I think the thing that gets me is that I've figured out it's a guy she works with and he's been chummy with me. Now I can see he's feeling me out to see if she's told me anything. That just infuriates me even more. I caqn just see her telling me I'm an animal for hurting him and rushing to his side to comfort him. Been there, done that.. got the hat and tee shirt. Sometimes I wish I could just take this caring heart of mine and toss it in the trash.

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