raven18,

That’s a bit of a bad scene there. These seem to be people who like to feel in control. I’m uncertain that you’ll be accepted even if you rework you application to their satisfaction, which did seem to be a common criticism.

Some people are like that. They get satisfaction from belittling others. Regrettable but true.

If you are intent upon making their grade, then I’d suggest you study a large number of the successful applications on the site, identify the common characteristics, and rework you application to fit that form. Once your application is complete, have someone whose opinion you trust - other than your boyfriend - edit it. Accept the criticisms and rework you application.

One way or another, good luck!

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Eudaimonia