It's not a dorky question at all.

I'm with Lilith on this one. Not only does she not have a penis, but her advice for you to check with a doctor first is good. A quick phone call could make a world of difference. Your pharmacist might even be able to tell you. Usually they know more about medicine than doctors.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.