Definitely not being a bore, Larry...
Liking women's clothes doesn't make you gay, many transvestites are completely hetro...witness a certain member here who has an open obsession with a certain form of women's undergarments, (ah-hem) which is just an expression of how much he loves women...
As for whether having enjoyed a BJ from other guys makes you gay, I can't say, except that you should remember the penis is a selfish little bastard who only cares about having his own fun, with no conscience about whether he's getting you into all kinds of trouble or not...
Finally, I'll echo the other sentiments expressed here to say that if you are gay, it doesn't make you a bad person, and it doesn't mean your whole life so far has been a mistake...just a part of this steep learning curve we call life...

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