I don't have any good words of advice for you, but want to offer you lots of *hugs* and a boatload of courage for ya.

Well wait, I do want to say something to you. The trying on of womens clothing could simply be telling you that you have the type of personality where textures and the phsycial sensation of touch means more to you than some.
I had a male friend who felt a bit of agony because he loved...I mean LOVED the sensation of womens pantyhose on his body. I believe he came to terms with it when he was told that he had a tactile nature about him......

does this make sense to you?

Would it be a "crisis" if you were gay?

To be honest, I find women/the female human body to be incredibly sexy and quite a turn on, but I don't feel gay about it at all. I feel very heterosexual and behave that way.
Is the feeling that you ARE gay something you fear, and if so, why?

Did I just overwhelm you with questions? LOL I surely hope not.

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