Larry, it would be cruel that anyone would dare to call you a bore...etc...etc.... Many of us have the luxury of knowing who we are sexually, but to be human, we all have things that are odd or not quite right. Mine is that I don't think I could love again...but that is me.

AS to your situation you need to look within and find the answer. Truth be told we are all lonely inside our own heads (maybe save for those with multipal personalities)--the important thing is to be honest with yourself and not try to fudge the answers to your questions. All I can say is I can be thankful that this isn't one of my problems--haha!