the only thing I can recomend for falling out of love is space and time, I know I would have had an immensly hard time healing had I completely cut ties to my ex way back when, although it may be hard I tell you it is certainly for the best, now months later looking back I can see things were definatly for the best and I'm happy with my new girlfriend, Bah I just spilt pop all over myself, luckily I have a wet nap here lol, anyway

my point was, life does go on, and you will recover, although the process isn't always painless it's easy to see it's for the best, so I wish you the best of luck healing