aw the great fear of being bad in bed, yes I've seen this quite a bit myself, seems to be a common theme, particularly in younger females I find, that they seem more preoccupied with orgasm count than just enjoying themselves, I find the best thing is just to constantly encourage them that no one is keeping score lol, and personally guys LIKE it when the girl cums more than them lol

oh and just for the record just cuz the girl cums and the guy doesn't, doesn't mean the guy didn't like it!