thanks everyone. I knew that if I spoke about this here I could trust honest responses. Lilith there is always a smile on my face when i see a butterfly (and I make a good indian meal!) Jennaflower, thanks; Steph, no not really but she had had a crappy time in the past 2, thats y I thought it would work for us she knew what i was going thru, or at least i thought she did! Irish cheers mate! Celticangel, it still bloody hurts tho eh??

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