I need your help, folks, re: a stalker
Okay, here's the whole story.
There's this guy. Let's call him.. George. George and I have known each other for 10 years, since the 8th grade. In high school, we were very close, we were like brother and sister. We used to hang out, despite the fact that we were in completely different cliques, and he used to stand up for me against the stupid people who decided to call me fat, a brainyac, etc. George was a sweetheart in high school. He was stupid, took drugs, and drank, but he was sweet. When I had a stalker at the age of 15, George protected me. He even took a few beatings for protecting me, but he did it.
Right after we graduated (should mention, we went to Catholic school), George told me that he'd been fantasizing about me sexually since the 10th grade. I was like "why?". He told me it was because he figured that under that Catholic exterior, I was a tiger just waiting to pounce. As I started to be sexually active with other people, George got more insistent that he wanted a piece. He never wanted a RELATIONSHIP, just a fuck. I always said no, because it was GEORGE.. like, it would have felt like incest, we were just so close in high school.
Anyway, 6-8 months ago, we talked for the last time. He asked again, and I said no. I'm in a happy relationship, and I wasn't going to fuck it up for just a lay. He then asked me to keep things to myself, because he didn't want his friends (from high school) to find out. I asked why, and he said "well, you're the fat, dorky chick from high school that nobody wanted... and I have a reputatioin to protect". I told him to fuck off, and then put him on ignore, and blocked as much of his emails, pms, etc, as I could.
Fast-forward to two weeks ago. Two weeks ago, I get a PM on another site that I post at. I hadn't told him that I belonged to that site, and here, he'd found me. His PM asked if I was mad at him, and why I hadn't contacted him. (He never was that smart). I cold-listed him and ignored the PM, and then in the next couple days, he formed 4 or 5 new identities to PM me with. Each of those, I blocked, as well. Today, I logged into ANOTHER site that I use, which he knew I posted at, but had never known my name there.. and found a PM in my box from him.
He's getting creepy. Because we were friends, he knows my phone number, he knows where I live, and he knows a great amount of the details of my life. None of his emails have been threatening, just irritating... what the fuck should I do?
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