Forgive me, Vida, but when I'm aware of a woman who might be about to buy a new toy to make herself happy, I simply can't resist trying to help--hence, my name.

You might want to go to www.romanceandsexuality.com, which will take you to A Woman's Touch, a highly recommended website run by some very nice women in Madison, Wisconsin. (I have no affiliation with this or any other website.) There are lots of other good sites where you can buy quality products without the embarrassment that is sometimes associated with adult retail stores. This one, because it is run by women, might make you feel more comfortable. I can assure you it will be a pleasant experience.

But more importantly, what do you buy? I think you will be doing yourself a favor if you get the Water Dancer, a new waterproof version of the Pocket Rocket. It's about $25 on this site. It's only about four inches long, but is very powerful and well constructed. It has wonderfully intense vibrations and smooth little gold nubs on the end that will delight you. Any of the genuine Pocket Rockets are great. The actual name on the product is mini-Massager. Watch out for cheap imitations.

If you like penetration in addition to clitoral stimulation with your toy, look at the one they call the The Bunny on this site. It's actually the Rabbit Pearl by Vibratex. If you can spend $75...Get It! ($100+ on some other sites.)

The description they use to describe it is accurate, but does not really do it justice: "This is not a one dimentional toy, the shaft rotates and strokes your g-spot, pearls stimulate sensitive nerves at the mouth of the vagina, and the bunny's cute little ears vibrate at variable speeds to stimulate your clitoris." Well, yeah, it does all that, but wait 'til you try it! It ALWAYS makes my wife scream. Again, there are lots of imitations. The popular Jack Rabbit, for instance, but it's just not the same thing.

Maybe you can tell we've done a little research. There are a few other toys that could turn out to be your favorite if you tried them all, but you cannot go wrong with either of these.

Your toy will come packaged so that no one can tell what it is, and it only takes a couple of days.

By the way, another benefit of this site and others like it is that while your browsing all the sexy stuff, you might even find that you're able to reach an orgasm with your finger! Have fun! Post back and let us know.