Frankly...whether it be anal or any other sexual contact if there is fear or a lack of trust, especially with someone who has been abused, the experience may be difficult and less pleasurable. No amount of lube or any position can exhaust those demons.

These are two very different things, one involves physiology and the other emotional security. And there is no one-size-fits-all answer for either.

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