I just want to say that I fully understand my wife role in what she did. That is something to be dealt with in the privacy of our own home, not on a public forum. The reason I posted this is because I hate you for the things you have been doing with her. If I caught her cheating cheating in a physical relationship I wouldn't only blame her, but the other guy as well. I can't hold on to that kind of hatred in my life, I already forgave Ang, and I want to forgive you and move on with my life. I couldn't forgive you until you knew how much you hurt me. You gave her self confidence, feelings of exceptance, made her feel sexy, made her feel wanted, made her feel proud...this is all stuff that you striped from me! I'm over it now, I just needed you to know how I feel. I never expected you to recieve my message, and never cared if you did, I just needed you to know. If you don't think what I said applied to you, then it probably didn't. I realize it was only a handful of people she talked to regularly. Just remember that there are real people involved here, and people are getting hurt, I forgive you all, and just want to move on with my life now.