Well, I don't think it "natural", I think it has a lot to do with societal training. The vast majority of women have been taught to be passive when it comes to sex. You can't expect someone to instantly overcome 18-50 years of training immediately.

I would say, that compared to the societal average, the women here (again, on the average) are substantially more aggressive.

Which can be a problem, when they don't follow my orders, of course!

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