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Originally posted by denny
I posted here earlier, failing to injest some levity into this post. Perhaps it is too serious for the humor.
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I laughed, Denny, I did!!!!!!
Anthony, I think your posts were very well thought out and I agree with you on many points.
Just as I think Loulabelle's posts were, and I also agree with many of her points.
I hate to paraphrase such long and detailed posts, but I think what Lou was getting at was that given Raven's recent history, she does APPEAR to have many insecurities and vulnerabilities. That's not to say she IS insecure or vulnerable, but it is a definite possibility and I think Loulabelle did the right thing by pointing it out. I would imagine very few Pixies knows Raven intimately enough to be so in tune with her emotional stability to make any judgement, but that's what we were asked to do.
I'm encouraged by the number of posts in this thread making the point that having a high libido and acting on it safely is a good thing - it is! PROVIDED, it doesn't put them in any substantial danger. It is a sad reality that these days there are too many predators willing to take advantage of a promiscuous, vulnerable and attractive young lady. Attractive and young Raven certainly is, but I don't know her well enough to judge if she's vulnerable or not and even if i did I wouldn't make that judgement publicly.
But it's a possibility and I hope Raven considers this advice and if she's confident she's in control, if she's sure she's taking every reasonable precaution, then that's great! I'll call her whatever she likes!
CasperTG
PS Welcome Anthony! Great to have you on board, constructive disagreement is a very good thing!