In my opinion and having the experience of chatting with Raven quite a few times, I think she is totally in control of her sex life.

She is though on her own and is sounding out people who she trusts about things,

Her parents disapprove of her and as Raven says they have no idea of what she really does. Certainly they would not be enlightened by the discussion that is going on here.

I know that this lovely young lady sufferred a lot when her long time boyfriend broke it off. We all can remember heartache and Raven unfotuneatly has had some of her own.

She is learning, testing, enjoying and allowing the true spirit in her to run free. She has used this forum as a balance to get others perspective. I think that is a healthy thing to do in an environment like Pixies where people care about others and their welfare.