Ginger is dead on. Get away and lick your wounds. You cannot help her, only she can help herself. You will only get hurt more by her in the process. It is hard, but move on.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours