These are all great answers to me. My sex drive is higher than my husband's. So, I feel at times I hound him for it more than he wants it. I wish he would just need and want me so bad but instead I am probably buggin' him for it too much and don't give him a chance to ask me. So this all applies to me too. I know he loves me dearly but having someone "want" you that much is a wonderful feeling. I wish he would do all the sweet things CGT said up above, that stuff would melt me, but he's just now "showy" like that. You should have the openness to talk thru this tho without hurting eachother. I have been thru the same thing "I am too fat, you don't love me" all of it, but I know it's not true in his eyes.
Good luck!

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