Ohh

And another thing - saying NO. I ventured recently to say that my sex drive had dropped - spouse was mortified and really got worked up - angry. Lots of stuff Did I not like her? Was she over-weight? Was she not sexy enough etc?


I have found that I cannot say No to a woman, because they just get so so offended - I have done it when I really did not want too, but rather than offend I just shut up. When I told spouse she was totally amazed - she thought that guys always want it and just do it forever - could not understand that EVEN guys sometimes do not want sex..

So girls - can your men say NO? Or would you be offended?

Clearly it is totally ok for a woman to say no, any guy who thinks otherwise is totally shit - but can a guy say No?

Wildeye - so tiredly wild