Hi buddy,

you said you don't feel anything inside but there must have been something in the first place. Think back to then and see if you can rediscover the things that atracted you in the first place.

That your wife seems willing to make the effort is a good thing, now to be fair to everyone including yourself, you need to make an effort too. I also like LarryL saying love is a verb, an action word.

If you started getting some love and affection from your wife and gave it back in kind perhaps things will change. I know you are disillusioned but it is really worth the effort to make sure it is broken.

I have been through a divorce and seen all sorts of hurt, especially my daughter, it kills me to see her hurt. But it is done and there is nothing I can do to mend it.

I would have fallen to bits staying in the marriage but I urge you to take all steps to make sure that it is totally broken before bailing out.

all the best