
05-28-2004, 12:54 PM
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Manwhore
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Pacific Northwest
Posts: 15,495
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Re: Anal Question
Hey Curious gal,
As many Pixies know, I love anal sex. I love asses in general, but anal sex is something I really enjoy, whether I am using a toy on myself, licking a woman's ass, or sliding into her back door. A lot of the pleasure comes from the taboo aspect I'm sure.
One of the keys to a pleasurable experience is relaxation. Don't go straight to trying to stuff it in, take plenty of time for foreplay. It doesn't have to be anal foreplay, just get yourself worked up into a 'damn I am ready to fuck' mood. Use lots of lube and when he is ready to enter you, have something to stimulate your clit, be it finger or vibe. Also, be sure he understands that if you say "Ow!, nope, not gonna work" that he backs out. If that happens, try a different position. Doggy is the classic anal position, but the best anal postion (as in least discomfort) I've experienced when with a woman doing anal for the first time is basically missionary, although I have known a couple women where it worked best when they were on top. Don't be afraid to try different positions.
Communicate with your man, be sure you are on the same page and want to try it. The goal you should shoot for in trying anal sex is your pleasure. It's gonna feel good for him, no worries there. But if it doesn't feel good for you it will not be an experience you are going to want to repeat.
Good luck!
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