I do know that while we're having sex if I start to tell my hubby to imagine someone else or to pretend I am someone else (ah hell, just for the hell of it), it throws him all off and there have been times he can't finish. So, I don't do that anymore. I should take that as a good thing but hate that I messed up his time too. What all I am saying is that you both will learn what the other likes and dislikes. Good luck & have fun trying! man...to be in my 20's again......

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